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In Its all in my mind! on May 2, 2012 at 12:37 AM

On Sunday afternoon, while moving my design studio back to Brooklyn w the help of my boyfriend, I was listening to one of the motivational speeches that he often makes me listen to with him.

The person speaking was David Pietsch. (And let me tell you) That man knows exactly what he is speaking about. I felt as if he was speaking directly to only me through the speakers. He was reconfirming everything that goes on in this busy mind of mine as far as the current education system and finances are concerned.

One of the things that stood out to me the most was his reference to T.Harv Eker’s book. “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering The Inner Game of Wealth”. This book seeks to differentiate the way individuals (rich and poor) process their interaction with Money.

He was kind enough to give 17 Monetary thought comparisons between the rich and the poor.

I thought these were extremely interesting as well as amazingly accurate, And I was happy to evaluate myself according to this list. I was also delighted to find that I had more in common with the “Wealthy” thought process. And I look forward to in the near future, eliminating the few “poor” thought processes from my psyche.

For your convenience and full understanding, I have provided the list beneath.
Please do Enjoy! You can also evaluate your own thought process.

  1. Wealthy people believe, “I create my life.” Poor people believe, “Life happens to me.”
  2. Wealthy people play the money game to win. Poor people play the money game to not lose.
  3. Wealthy people are committed to being rich. Poor people want to be rich.
  4. Wealthy people think big. Poor people think small.
  5. Wealthy people focus on opportunities. Poor people focus on obstacles.
  6. Wealthy people admire other rich and successful people. Poor people resent rich and successful people.
  7. Wealthy people associate with positive, successful people. Poor people associate with negative or unsuccessful people.
  8. Wealthy people are willing to promote themselves and their value. Poor people think negatively about selling and promotion.
  9. Wealthy people are bigger than their problems. Poor people are smaller than their problems.
  10. Wealthy people are excellent receivers. Poor people are poor receivers.
  11. Wealthy people choose to get paid based on results. Poor people choose to get paid based on time.
  12. Wealthy people think “both”. Poor people think “either/or”.
  13. Wealthy people focus on their net worth. Poor people focus on their working income.
  14. Wealthy people manage their money well. Poor people mismanage their money well.
  15. Wealthy people have their money work hard for them. Poor people work hard for their money.
  16. Wealthy people act in spite of fear. Poor people let fear stop them.
  17. Wealthy people constantly learn and grow. Poor people think they already know.



Impromptu Traife!

In Personal Style, Fashion on April 25, 2012 at 11:38 PM

These are some pictures that Bill, my absolute fav girl took off me at Traife in Williamsburg!!







He’s the Best!! O n Happy Birthday Billy!! #cake


(XayLi Looks) Thursday @ the Office!

In Personal Style, Fashion on April 15, 2012 at 4:51 PM

I promised to do some XayLi (daily) looks! Here i am at work on thurs when fellow blogger Loudpen snapped a quick pic of me while i was in the elevator bank on a coffee run :).



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